Forgot To Grateful

There are times, when we really feel tired. Run out of steam in the face of the complexity of life. Life is too full of mystery. Every step of our journey can not be expected. Life is too full of surprises. Make us surprised many times, even when we are preparing everything.

We often fight against fate. We often fight against reality. In fact, we do not have any power to resist and fight. So weak that we are not even able to stop the graying of hair or skin wrinkles begin.
So, what exactly we are against and stand for? What we strive for is nothing but his own weakness. The weakness inherent in us that is so difficult to appreciate life itself.

We spend the time to demand a lot of things, condemned the situation and blame fate. But we forget to use our time to be grateful for what we already have.
The main problem we as human beings is forgotten grateful. Forgot grateful to all the good look bad. Forgot grateful to be self-centered love.

Opportunities In Life

In a fertile field, there are 2 pieces that lay seed. The first seed said, "I want to grow up. I want to set my seed in very deep in this land, and grow shoots my seeds on this land. I want to spread all of my seeds to greet the spring. I want to feel the warmth of the sun, and the softness of the morning dew on the tops of my leaves. "

And the first seeds of the program grows, the more towering.

Seedlings of both murmured. "I'm afraid. If i planted my roots  into this land, I do not know, what will meet down there. Is not there a very dark? And if push down my buds above, not later my bud's beauty will be lost? It would be my buds torn. What would happen if tmy buds open, and the snails trying to eat it? And certainly, if I grew up and broke, all kids will try torevoke me from the ground. No, it would be better if I wait until everything is safe. "

And seed was waiting, in solitude.

A few weeks later, chickens scratch the ground, find the second seed said, and eat immediately.

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People, indeed, there is always a choice in life. There's always plays that we must live. However, often we are in pesimisms, fear, doubt, vacillation and indecision, we've created yourself. We are often persuaded by the reasons for not going to go, do not want to look alive. Because life is a choice, then, face it bravely. And because life is a choice, then, choose wisely.
Companions, each option is always there accompanying risk. But do not let fear, doubt and indecision, we stopped.

ps. "Open every door of opportunity that came knocking, because, who knows, it did not knock the door twice." (Hilman, Lupus I)

Source : Resensi.net

Don't Be Afraid Of Problems

Let prism of the problem .. Our quality depends on the magnitude of the problem we have to face. The problem is not coming to complicate our lives. It is a tool we need to grow stronger

Humans grew up with problems. The bigger problem that he managed to finish, then the better person he will attained. Indeed, sometimes we have to fall and get up, stumbled and fell, wounded and bleeding. Many persons are not ready and able to face this painful process. Some of them retreated, surrendered, and lost. These are the people who choose not to believe theirselves. They dont want to believe that there will be a fine day after the storm. They forget, that if they hold it lasted a minute longer, then a new day in the hope that better will come.

Problem is how to force ourselves to fight the limit of ability. Do not ever expect that after we successfully completed a problem, it will be easier next. Problems we face today, is the preparation to face the problem that much greater ahead. Because, only by this way, people can grow amazingly.

We recall that a problem is like fighting. Don't you know that each of us has been given scattered reinforcements around us to deal with all the cases. But we often do not realize, and assume that we are struggling alone, thinking that we are most miserable person in the world. We forget the assistance which was actually around. All we have to do is open our eyes and ears open, and we will find the help we need.

Do not be afraid of problem.Be afraid of how easy we surrendered. Life is a struggle. But, because that's life so interesting to be lived

Life Is A Beautiful Pattern

Sometimes we feel like live in some puzzles. Intertwined, chaotic, messy, unpredictable and looks messy. Sometimes, the plot makes us sometimes tired to through with it. Especially when we met and experienced something unpleasant, sad and blue confuse.

We suddenly met with a person or an event, we always say "IT'S COINCIDENCE". Everything looks like it just happened, unexpected, unplanned

Is this correct?

Obiously. all this questions can be answered only with a significant sentence "There are no accident". God Already drew the whole story above the skies.

Even in slight it looks like a tangled, but if we want to see more, everything on this earth is nothing but a pattern of beauty is leading us in one estuary, Alloh KNOW ...

The problem is, are we willing to see all these magic that with a more divine perspective ? There is no single thing happen above the earth without Alloh's knowing.

Then, what moral lesson?

Life is about journeys .... Life is about lesson .... Life is about taking your faith undoubtly ....

Dare to face the world, because painful is just a preparation to hold the happines..

And most importantly ...

Maybe something that we're realy horrified is a good thing for our sake.

Selfish ? It May Ooccasionally

Selfish ... this is one of the most difficult terms to be recognized by someone. Why so ? Because it is has a negative implication. Someone at least want to be called selfish, when in fact?

But actually, selfish is not merely a bad trait or a weakness. Just like what my friend said, "One moment of weakness that we have, will be excess and weapons." But, yes depending on each situation and condition. And vice versa.

So, why does ALLOH include selfishness in one of the treasury of human character? Because at a certain moment, can be a selfish self-defense tool of the most powerful. Without a sense of selfish, humans would not have the ability to survive in difficult circumstances. The essence of selfishness is not "selfish". While pinned, a sense of "selfish" is what can make us survive? Impressed MEAN? Ah, it's not ....

Also, why does male has more selfishnes sense than woman? Because male's future is as the leader of a  family that inevitably must always stand up straight from the brunt of living for the family. So, this selfish thought will help them to cope any matter and keep strong.

So, what is the  moral lesson, then?
Yes, indeed ALLOH  not create anything in vain.
If you feel inferior because you do have many weaknesses, STOP it. Right now. Because the weakness in ourselves is also a potential strength that has not been explored. 

So, BE PROUD OF Ourselves

EXHAUSTED, THE HIDDEN ENERGY

Exhausted. It is the loyal companion of human's activity. It has many forms, from physical to mental. According to the biology term, exhausted caused by the lactac acid accumulation in the muscles as the results of glycogen oxidation in order to change become energy. This lactac acid will lead to the uneasy and painful feeling. If we keep pushing it, these lactac acids with make some muscles disfunction. This disfunction able to create trauma and muscle strech.        

Exhausted in physchology term has different definition. Exhausted define as the weaken of emotional control to think, act and analyze something. In the certain path, exhausted able to eliminate emotional control, so the complicated feeling easily to come out at the surface, such as crying and anger.  If we make a conclusion, exhausted is a body demand to be rested. We are blessed by the exhausted. Why ? Because,  by feel exhausted, we just give a little break for body, brain and soul for a while. Rest for a moment. Just imagine, if we don’t have it. We are going to work, work, work, never stop. So, without our notice, our body will "damage" and not able repaired anymore. Just like the machines, if we keep using it without a break, it will blow up. Soon or later.

 Feel exhausted than take some break always identify by remain silent, nothing to do. Though, at the contrary, the exhausted’essens is wider and deeper than that. There are the calm principle, power building process, relaxation activity, deep thought and wide thinking continuity. There is the calm principle, because exhausted give us enough time to take a break and remain silent for a while. Absorbing the noisy around us in silence. Taking the meaning by standing as an independent figure out of the circle. So, we able to see focus and clearly. With no much movement, mind detoxification process able to do maximally. Eliminating bad things and leaving the positive things.

Besides, there is power building process in this exhausted things, because tired sent a response to body to take a break for a while. Eliminating the lactic acids, swept the exhausted in every muscle. By remaining silent, body’s metabolism will find it’s own stability. Every messy nerve will put back to the places. The freshness will appear smoothly. And the body will prepare the new energy, spirit and faith to move on the delaying projects.

We will have relaxation activity during the exhausted, because tired gives body and brain to stretch the muscles, cooling down the emotional temper and repairing the mindset. We will able to loosen the nerves that have been pushed to work hard. Also, there is replacement for the broken cell, during this relaxation activity. Feeling comfortable, healthy and satisfied are the response as the result of this process.

Just keep working until that exhausted feeling came after you. The best recreation is working. In this shoulder, there are a lot faith and heavy obligation have to be taken. Exhausted is not a thing should be afraid of. Also it is not a justification to have retreat. Because, behind the exhausted there are a mountainous meanings. Exhausted is the other way to work ; keep silent. After the exhausted there will be a great power. Just keep looking, because the exhausted is the neglected hidden energy.

LIFE IS A STRUGGLE

Life have never walked smoothly, diametrical without resistance like turnpike. Life is devious, up and down, fall and up, go forward and retreat. Life has never become an easy problem. Life also never turn into a perfect mode. Please, don't ever expecting perfection in any case. Because the perfection in this life are impossible and absurd matter to be realized. 

If there is no way to become a perfect things, then why do we torturing ourselves to reach the plenary result without handicap ? Even when all of those efforts are going to hurt some people, because we insists to keep our ego. In fact, we were created with all of limitation in order to struggle to penetrate the boundaries. That's important meaning from a period of our life. Struggling is the nickname of life. By struggling, we understand that there's nothing free in this life . Everything has their own price. Like old saying, there is no failure, it's just a winning in delay. So there is no failure, there just one nearer step a head to successfulness.

The meaning of struggling is never give up. Difficulty and temptation is as artistic as struggling. Just see it as an art masterpiece. Without curves, of course its would never become the most beautiful masterpiece. That way also with life. Difficulty is just hills we must pass by to reach the beautiful valley ahead. Sometimes we forget, that at the opposite of adversity, there is a happiness waiting after. Sometimes we are too busy  cursing the situation. Sometimes we forget, that difficulty in this present time is the price for the our efficacy  in the future. 

Struggling in unperfectionism can become a beautiful matter. The only problem we have is pursuing perfection.  We never be a perfect  person. All we can do is trying the best to become a better person than previously.  Start from in this time, just drop our ambition to pursue a perfection. Just start to learn how to transfer our maximum energy for the right purpose, become a better person If we able to do this,  one day in the future when we face to this time, we will realize something, that somehow we already  become a better  person.

RECONCILE WITH DIFFICULTY

             Life is a great art. Life transforms into the beauty when its climbs to the top of successfulness. And life still has deep meaning when its slide down uncontrolable to the bottom of failure. Life is meaningful jorney, because in every path, there are a lot of life lessons. But unfortunately, we often forget to enjoy it.

            We as just human being cannot make this life move with our own scenario. Naturally, we want this life move smoothly, no barriers, no difficulty. Live smoothly is very pelasing, and making hapy.

            We forgot that human are dymnamic creatures. We cannot grow in stability. Human will transform into the amazing ones, exactly when limitation moment block their step.  That was the true meaning of the creation as human being

            We often forget that pain is the best companion of successfulness and maturity. Even started since our very first cries in the universe.

            Difficulty is not always become unpleasant thing. Because difficulty is the same as pain, limitation, and unhappiness. Because that’s, both of our body and soul always consider difficulty as big rivals. Though, difficulty is the best friend for reminding us of the succesfulness. It is the best preparation to become the best of all. Difficulty drive us to find the gaps solution. With difficulty, we are pushed to try harder, even broke imagination and passing our limit. With difficulty, we able to taste the sweet of succesfulness.

            We’re always asking when the difficulty coming, but we always forget for asking the reason why happiness coming to us. The pain is the manifestation of God’s mercy. Going through with the pain will lead us to respect the meaning of health and opportunity we have. Pain is the way ourselves to gaze for a moment, how hard we already keep ourselves from making mistakes. Sometimes, we consider difficulty as the barries for move further. At this point, we make fatal mistake.

            Considering difficulty as the barries just will avoid us to find who we are exactly. It will make limit to our unlimited power. The fail persons are they who don’t make their difficulty as the great challenge which must be conquered.

            Sometimes, we fight with difficulty, consider it as the enemy that have to be vanished. Really, it will just waste our energy. Though, if we reconcile with difficulty, it will swicth the role, as the best companion which accompanying us grow as the better human. No gain No Pain, doesn’t it ?

            Let’s take difficulty as a loyal bestfriend. It  is the most honest companion to reveal who we are. Let’s reconcile with difficulty. This is the time for being the ultimate person.

WISE, BORN FROM DISTRESS

            Wise cannot be achieve in a course of last night. Many sorrowful and difficulty have to go through before we able to get this title. Its not easy to. Really it is not easy to do.

            We often forget to realize the result from fallen process to wake up which we experience of. If we spend a little time to gaze a moment, surely we will find the big meaning at the opposite of all difficulty

            The moment we own the big problem, its really comfortable and calming if we earn to find someone to share with. At their shoulder, we can lean a strength. At their words, we find calmness. And in smiling we find clarification. Together with them, our burden far decrease and even from their help, our difficulty is solved. From which term all that come ?

            The answer is on their delaying in broil meaning of life which they experience of. Through them, God entrust barricade and difficulty to be felt, to be accounted on and finished. To them, God gift them to feel difficulty with multifarious colour. They are the chosen people which made feel beforehand various distress and barricade. Until then, with the fall process to wake up and remarkable pain, They later; then born to become a new human being with goal feel different life from previously. Human being which looking into life in perspectively newly. And this called wise.

            The reality, the wisdom of this calm people, coming from distress which God give to they taste beforehand than us. In consequence, the wise people are extraordinary people who change ugly matter become pearl. And with  pleasure, they are dividing it to us. What a lucky we are, if these kind people reside in around. Because its really will only the positive energy which shine from them which always look into life with constructive side.

            The question now is can we become like them ? Chosen people who awakening from ashes and turn into a phoenix giving august at their surrounding.

BE ARROGANT ? WE ARE NOTHING

Humility is a cooling wellspring. Its always become a healer. Its able to mellowing the hardness of the rocks, because humility are the  perity drops itself. Humility able to attract the sympathy, that sometimes so difficult to be reached for. Its inviting pure love that able to heal the broken heart.

Humility is the beginning for opening the secret of nature. It is the very first bollard for finding the true meaning of life. Humility always going to the final destination, the attainment of high science. Humility will lead us to become the people who always know and understand that each of us have a lot of lacks. This is the reason, why people will always find something new, that they don’t know before. It is imposible for  experiencing life without learning process.

Science is the enemy for the arrogant people. Just like water against the high place. Arrogant just like black screen that avoiding us to see everything from many sides. Arrogant will lead us to act defensif from every truth that coming to us.

Arrogant makes us feel like a saint, underestimating the others, and declare ourselves as the greatest one on earth. Though, from this point, the stupidity start to grow rapidly. So that, we already dead within our soul.

If the ones already have science better, instead become vain, they will get more humble. Realizing that they are nothing and nobody.

There were a lot of people have been destroyed, caused by their arrogancy. They felt as the greatest amongs the other, even dared to challenged God. History notes their story  so that can be made as a lesson for the later generation.

Humility is a way to touch heart by heart itself. There is no more synchronized communications except with heart itself. People will get touch when they see humble person, because these people willing to accept the inputs, feel no shame to keep learning, and do not unwilling to be criticized. Humility will create an emotional contiguity. This is the best part become human being. Accepted by the others.

CHANGE WEAKNESS TO STRENGTH

           Every man have their own weakness. So people said, when they find resinstance, insuffiency and incapability in doing something. Life is not fair. So that people denial, when the situation move forward uncontrollable. Is that true ?

            Weakness or even strength, just a word to describe a certain condition. It just a word, non a fact. Because in the reality, weakness often become a powerful weapon at some case. So that with the strength. At some point, strength even able to destroy ourselves. Strength able to transform become the massive destroyer for those who have it. So where is the truth ?

            The truth placed at our view. The way we see the things. Our biggest problem is not based on how many insuffiencies we have, but based on how deep we see the meaning of everything.

            Weak people, are not the ones who have many insuffiencies. But, weak people are the ones who never able to see good side of any occurences. Weak people are the ones who always curse every failure and blaming the less opportunity. Weak people are the one who always trying to become a winner, don’t care how many victims because of it.

            The strength is placed at how many wisdom we have to process weakness as a way to the  humanist attitude, by placing ourselves always  to become a better person, never tired to achieve ultimate result.

            There are no powerful man. There's only the one who try to become better. Walking  through their weakness to the become the ultimate form, become a better person.