Selfish ? It May Ooccasionally

Selfish ... this is one of the most difficult terms to be recognized by someone. Why so ? Because it is has a negative implication. Someone at least want to be called selfish, when in fact?

But actually, selfish is not merely a bad trait or a weakness. Just like what my friend said, "One moment of weakness that we have, will be excess and weapons." But, yes depending on each situation and condition. And vice versa.

So, why does ALLOH include selfishness in one of the treasury of human character? Because at a certain moment, can be a selfish self-defense tool of the most powerful. Without a sense of selfish, humans would not have the ability to survive in difficult circumstances. The essence of selfishness is not "selfish". While pinned, a sense of "selfish" is what can make us survive? Impressed MEAN? Ah, it's not ....

Also, why does male has more selfishnes sense than woman? Because male's future is as the leader of a  family that inevitably must always stand up straight from the brunt of living for the family. So, this selfish thought will help them to cope any matter and keep strong.

So, what is the  moral lesson, then?
Yes, indeed ALLOH  not create anything in vain.
If you feel inferior because you do have many weaknesses, STOP it. Right now. Because the weakness in ourselves is also a potential strength that has not been explored. 

So, BE PROUD OF Ourselves